My older sister moved to Cary, NC 20 years ago when it was just starting to grow. It is in the heart of the "Research Triangle" which is centric to Duke, UNC and NC State. It has since blown up and really nice down there. My younger sister moved down there across the street from my older sister 6 years ago and my Mom retired and moved down less than a mile from them 4 years ago... see the trend. Cary, NC, which is only 15-20 minutes from RDU airport, made the top 100 places to live in the US but I can't remember who made the list, I want to say Forbes Mag.
Lots of transplants from our area because of the tech/engineering companies but given the growth everywhere, there are plenty of jobs to be had. Every year, I go down there at least once or twice and the gps is wrong because there are new roads constantly being paved. Don't know the surrounding town names but they are all nice in that particular area. Real estate used to be a better deal but prices have been climbing because of the growth, still a much better deal than NJ. My sisters 4000+SF mini mansion on an acre+ would be 750-800K here but only in the 6's down there. Size matters, you can judge the prices based on the size of the mailbox and I'm being totally serious.
If it weren't for my mother in law entrenched in this state, I'd be down there also, in a heartbeat. If you end up there in a couple years, I'll point you towards my sisters house, they will welcome you with open arms and when you meet their friend Rick, you'll instantly have private property to hunt cause he will extend an invitation, that's the way it is down there.